You're the one who asked. If you don't like the answers then don't bother asking.
[He can't help to be harsh and annoyed with his words. It was her who asked, it was her who brought it up first and now she's the one acting as if the one asking for pity was him.]
no subject
[He can't help to be harsh and annoyed with his words. It was her who asked, it was her who brought it up first and now she's the one acting as if the one asking for pity was him.]